Thursday, December 12, 2013

What are three qualities of true friends?

   What are three qualities of true friends?
     I know that everyone have a lot of friends, but I don’t think that people have many TRUE friends, because is hard to find a true friends. When you consider some one is you true friends, maybe that person didn’t think that you’re his true friends. It’s very hard to tell if that friends like you, want to be your friends, and be your true friends. I have lots and lots of friends, but I only have few true friends. I have no idea what is the three qualities of mine true friends. All I want for now is honest and we have the same hobby.
     In my opinion, the first quality of the true friends should be having a same hobby with me, also like to play with me. The reason I say this is because hobby is what make us in to friends first, and then we can become true friends. Before we become a true friend, we have to be friend first, and before friend, we have to see each other, before we see each other, we have to meet at some kind of activity, and hobby is the best thing that could bring us together and become friends. After I came to Saipan, I have no friends at all, I couldn’t communicate with others, but I found out the other way to get friends, is to play certain game, play sport or go to party. That is how I know a lot of friends.
     After the first quality of true friend, the second one is to be honest to each other. After the first thing hobby, we became a friend. The second thing is the important thing that would make us to be true friend, also best friend. I have a little story to tell you. I use to have one best friend in China. Someday I call him and tell him to come out play with me, I will treat him. I bring 100 dollars and he brings nothing. We went to a restaurant that we use to go, and order the stuff that we use to order, everything is like before, and nothing changes. During time we waiting for our food, I went to the restroom, put my wallet and phone on the desk. Until we finish the food, when I was paying, I found out that I lost 60 dollars. I ask my best friend did anyone touch my wallet, my friend say no one was touching your wallet. I can’t pay now, the cost is 45, and I only have 40 left. OMG. I don’t know what to do, and suddenly my friend take 20 out from his wallet and give to me. I was so happy, but when I look at that 20 dollars closely, I can see the mark that I do on my lost 60 dollars. I want to give my friend one more chance to tell me the truth, so I ask my friend again that did anyone touch my wallet? He still says no. after that, I tell my friend that the 20 dollars you just give me, is mine money, and there is mark on that. Two letters on that money, was XU. He freak out, and say sorry. I’m saying that why you lie to me, you can just borrow from me, why you took from my wallet, we are best friend, and I will let you. He just keeping says sorry to me, but I just ignore it. We are not best friend anymore, nope, not even friend. 

     I only have to qualities of true friends. Honest and same hobby. 

Thursday, November 21, 2013

What is happiness?

        What is happiness?
Happiness has many different kind of definition. Different people have their own perspective of happiness. For poor people, happiness for them just by gives them food, they will be very happy about it, and thinks that is the happiness for them. On the other hand, for those people who  I have different happiness at different time.
When I was kindergarten, I always want to go home; I hate school, because I don’t know them well. I don’t like to hang out with them, so I always pretend that I’m sick, so I can go home play with my brothers. For that time, that is the happiness for me.
As I grow up, I’m elementary school now,(6th grade) all I want is to stay in school, play with my friends, I wish that I are rich, t

he happiness for them is to get more and more moneys. For me,can sleep in the school with the friends. Play some game, basketball, badminton, ping pong. I’m always the last person leave the school. When is vacation, I miss school so much, especial my friends, I can’t wait until the vacation is over. I just call them out and play. That is the happiness for me.
Now I’m middle school now, I start like the house, always stay in the house, maybe is because I came to Saipan, I don’t know the language, I can’t communicate with others. I don’t have many friends when I was middle school, I hate school, I learn nothing. I start playing game, so wallow on game. Play every day when I was home. My mom says that I change a lot compare to middle school. The main reason is the language thing, even through someone talk to me, I can’t understand. After 2 years, I can able talk to others and understand what other s saying. For this, the happiness is to play game a lot.
Finally I’m high school now, I know everyone in my class, not only the people in the class, also in the school. I have a lot of friends now, I quit the game thing, I start play with my friends again, we party, go to field trip together, having fun. This is the best time in my life; I will never forget my high school life, which is also my happiness in high school.
Everyone have their own different happiness, when my mom give me a new phone, I feel happiness. When someone did some that you are very happy at, that is one of the happiness. I don’t know about everyone’s happiness, but everyone at least will have happiness in your life somehow.

Happiness can define as a lot things, you can feel. I wish that everyone can a lot of happiness in their life.

What book benefit you the most and how?


What book benefit you the most and how?
     I never think of this topic before, I think that all book are benefit to me, they helps me a lot things in life and it taught me a lot. I read so many books; I have no idea which one benefits me the most. I read a small book call: Driver’s Handbook. I have an exam on this book, for taking a drivers license test, I have to study this book able to pass. I think most of people that have license already had read this book. First I thought this book will be boring, but actually I found out something that is interesting to me.
     The first reason that I pick this book is because this taught me a lot rules about driving, benefit me the most about the car. When I start touching car is when I was 15 years old, I don’t know how to control it, and I don’t even know how you start the engine. I’m very interesting on car, so I read a lot of book about car, but I don’t get it until I read this small handbook. Before I drive, I thought that you need two foot to control the things, but now I know that you just need one foot to control it. Also for the mirror, I don’t know how to use them, I thought there just there, and now I know that th
ere are uses for the backup. When you take the license test, I thought you just need any kind of car to take, after I read. You need a car that have certain thing like: safely glass, windshield, headlight, mirror, seat belts and shoulder straps, brake lights and tail lights, signal lights and good tires, license plate with light, parking and tight exhaust system, parking brake, brake, horn. This is what you need for the test.
It also taught me the different things of car. When you turn on the light, and when you turn on the head light. I thought they are no difference between light and headlight. The book say, the light is the one you usually turn on, and for the headlight, you only turn one when you can see cars, but when there is car in front of you, you have to change to regular light, the headlight will hurt people’s eye.
Before I came to Saipan, I never knew about the school bus, and when the school bus stop, all the car have to stop, also for the emergency car, you have to drive slow and make a pass way for the emergency car. This is the most important thing I learn from this book, because in China, I saw a few school buses, but when the students get down, no car will stop for that, that is the surprise for me. And for the emergency car, in Saipan you have to get the emergency car goes first, but it doesn't happen in China.
This book taught me a lot of new things; also make me have a new perspective for driving. I learn a lot.
     

     

A person’s look or clothing is more important than having good idea to succeed. Do you agree or disagree?

  A person’s look or clothing is more important than having good idea to succeed. Do you agree or disagree?
They both have their own advantage and disadvantage. I like both of them, I wish I could have. Look and clothing is good, I don’t know about what other thinks, but I think have a good idea is more important than look and clothing. No matter what, the idea can make very big change, but look or clothing will not.  
I think look and clothing is better but this doesn't match with the today’s topic, which is to succeed. I don’t think that look and clothing will be more succeed than having a good idea. The advantage for look or clothing depends on the job, if you are normal businessman, no one will look at your face, and all they care is that if you work hard and if you can make money for the company. If there are dealing with model, of course looks and clothing is more important than have a good idea, because the model is only looking for a handsome guy. They don’t need good idea for that job. Also like designer, have to be fashion enough to teach the younger people. Idol need look and clothing too, if there are not handsome, no one will like them, especial for girls. Look or clothing is better to get girls, and friends. The more handsome you are, the more friends you will have. When you go out, people will always look at you, and want to be friends with you. Still have good idea more likely to be succeeded.
Having a good idea is much much more important than look or clothing. The most advantage of having good idea is that, it last longer, meaning that you come came up with thousands of good idea, but not look or clothing. Once you get old, you will lose the ability, you will not look as handsome as before. Having good idea doesn't matter how old you are, you can still think a good ideas even thorough you are 70 years old. One more things, is that look only for the personal and idea can make huge difference. A good idea can worth 1 million dollars. It can save a company’s life. Look or clothing can’t do like that, and they will be not very succeed like those people who have good ideas. Look or clothing will not last longer as people who having the good ideas. When you go a company for job, they will ask you some questions, if you answer very good, they will just accepted you, they don’t care about the face or anything, they just want people to have a good idea, and can make money for them, that is all they want. When you look at those rich people, almost all of them looks normal, in the world they are only few people that have both of having good ideas and handsome.

If is me, I will choose having good idea first, and then look or clothing, for more succeed. Look or clothing is better for social life, and having good idea is for real society. 

What is the greatest strength of human?

     What is the greatest strength of human?
     The greatest strength of human is to speak and write. Having both speak and writing skill is the best strength of human. No others could do this, only human could do this. I know that some of the animals could speak too, but they can’t write. We are glad that God had given this kind of strength to human. Human have many different kind of strength, but I think that speak and write is most important thing.
     For the strength of human, the first and the most important thing I think that human strength is speak. If you can’t speak, we can’t communicate with other people, if you can’t communicate with others, you can’t do such things like, speech, and something that is talking. Speak is really important for me, I think that if I can’t speak, I will not do anything. I will just give up my life, because I can’t do anything without talking. Speak is very good for the human, so they can able to communicate with others able to do things together, help each others. Speaking can change many things in real life, many people have a job that is only talk, speaking can be job or other things, and it’s very helpful in our everyday life. If you can’t speak, they are a lot of stuff and things that you can’t do it. Speaking is one of the strength for the human.
     The other strength of human is write skill; many people think writing is not important as the speaking. But if you think carefully, some time that they are something that you can’t describe, the other way to say is to write them down. Sometimes that writing is the best way to tell a story or other stuff. For some handicap, they can’t speak; they born with no speak ability, so the writing skill is the best way for them to tell something to other people. Writing can earn tons of money, they are many artist in the world, they can use their magic pen create a beautiful picture and some art. If you don’t have hand to write something, you can’t do such thing like: cooking, driving, typing and lot things that deal with hand. The biggest difference between animals and human is that we can write, and we are smarter. Some of the animals can speak, but is not much as human today. We can speak a lot, we can tell everything thing by speaking to others.
     They are more human strength in the world, such as: emotional and others, not only those two that I just mention it, the reason that I choose this two is because that I like this two the most. They are all useful in my life, I use this every day in my life.    

     They are many stuff in the world that only can do it with speak and write. So I think both of this is the best strength for human. 

Monday, October 28, 2013

big or small

Big school or small school?
     There are many types and sizes of school throughout the world; some of them are small enough for only 100 kids and other can hold over 1,000. I am really happy for big schools because there is much more things to do, like having more activities, more friends and more food. I used to go to a big school in china and I really liked it; I go to a small school know and I like it but I do not like the idea that the school is really small. There are only three buildings in the school I go to now (SIS). I really miss my school in China; I really miss having a big school with 60 students. I hope that I can go back to the big school.
     They are several reasons that I want to go to big school. First, there are more hot girls. In small schools, they don’t have many people, which mean that they don’t have many hot girls. I like girls. Girls give guy energy to work harder. If have a less girl, the guys will be very sad. Now my class has 30 people, half is boys and half is girls. This is good balance, not much boys and not much of girls. I don’t like it. In China, mu classes have 45 girls, and 25 boys. This is what I like the most. Guys have many chances to get girls, but there are competitions among boys to get the prettiest girl. Most of the guys at least will get one girl, but some of the girls are still single. I feel sorry for those girls. You can get many girls not only in your class, also in the school. There are many girls, don’t worry, you will get one. I promise you. HAHAHAHAHAHA
     The second reason is that you can know many different cultures and language. They are much different type of people in the big school, when you have chance to get to know them, you will learn a very different kind of culture compare to your culture. In small school, they are not much of people, and they will not have much different culture than the big school. If you learn many different cultures and language, it helps you a lot on the future. The more things you learn, the better shape you are on the future. The big school is the best choice to be.
     They third one is that you can know a lot of friends. Friends is one of thing that you need in your life, I can’t do anything without friends. I always ask friends for help, and party together, have friends are really awesome. I want to meet more friends. In small school, you can only know little people, but in big school you will have lots and lots of friend.
     Big schools have more activity and party. I know it will be fun. Personal I like go to big school. HAHHAHAH
    
      

       

Thursday, October 24, 2013

children

What are things that I would teach and not teach to my children? How would my children do differently? I had never thought of this topic before, I don’t have any children right now. I have no idea what to teach and not to teach my children. I’m still children right now. I have no way to teach other children, I have to teach myself before I teach others. I learn many things from my parents; they always teach me new stuff every day. So if I have children, I would teach something that is useful stuff.
The first thing that I would teach is tell them to don’t lie to people, special to the parents. I want them to be not lie is because lying is very bad thing to do, it show a very disrespectful to other people and to old generation people. People should not lie; I want my children to know this first. The reason why I teach this first to my children is because this is what my mom told me. I always lie to my mom, and my mom gets really mad at me. She always tells me that, why you always lie to me, why don’t you just talk to me? I’ m your mom, I will listen to what you say, you don’t have to lie to me. The reason I lie to my mom is that I’m scared my mom, I know that my mom will not hit me or anything, but I’m just scared of her. Now, I did much better than before. I always talk to my mom now. I want my children do the same thing that I was doing now. It’s not hard to do this, if you try.
The second thing that I would teach is is kind to everyone. I think this is very important stuff. This is my experience, which is what I do to get many friends. This is a very important social skill, and is very useful. When you are working, you have to smile and kind to everyone, otherwise you may get fire. If you nice to other people other people will nice to you too. You can get more friends with this skill. I want my children to be socializing with other people, get many friends. It helps a lot.
The thing that I don’t teach is the sexual. This is too early for my children to know how is the sexual life is. I think they will know as time goes. This is something that I don’t need to teach, but they can figure out by themselves.
For those I will teach, it can change their life. First I mention about the lie, if you don’t learn that in your life, trust me that you will be fail. You lie to your parents, boss, and other people. It will hurt them, you family will not trust you anymore, your boss will fire you, and your friends will not play with you anymore. Your life will be sad. The second one is kind to others. If you not kind to others how did other people kind to you, you will not get many good friends. You can’t socialize with other people anymore. It really changes a lot if they don’t learn the stuff that I say.
That is that I would teach and not to teach them and many differences.